Wednesday, May 11, 2016

Hypnosis to become more ograsmic

A woman emailed this question this week:
Can hypnosis help me become more orgasmic?
Yes. There are a few ways in which hypnosis can help.

The mental state in which most people orgasm is a state in which you forget about everything else around you immerse yourself in your body's physical sensations. It is a natural trance.

Most people don't realize this, they just recognize the 'feel' of being overwhelmed by their body's sensations. But failing to enter this state of mind will prevent someone from reaching organism.

There are several possible reasons a woman might not enter this state: she might be too self conscious, she might not know or trust their partner well enough, she might subconsciously believe she's not supposed to enjoy sex, or she just might not have experienced that state of mind in the context of having sex.

Whatever the reason, hypnosis can certainly help. With hypnosis (especially with erotic hypnosis), you can become familiar with the trance state that enables orgasm. You can feel this state of mind as a natural part of your body's response to being sexually touched. And you can train yourself to slip into this state of mind whenever you are with your lover.

With guided visualization (the type of suggestions given to you under hypnosis), you can see yourself relaxing into your lover's touch or kiss and allowing yourself to fully immerse in the pleasure of your body's sensations.

Your subconscious cannot distinguish the memory of a real experience from that of a fantasy.  So fantasizing about the way you will respond (especially when in a trance) can help condition your mind to enter a trance when touched or kissed sexually. And this will help you achieve more frequent and satisfying orgasms.

I included suggestions for this in Introducing Erotic Hypnosis and The Pleasure Principle.


Friday, April 22, 2016

Postponing the test session for Subconscious Triggers

I was hoping to host a test session Subconscious Triggers this month. Unfortunately, I'm going to have to postpone it. My doctor changed my asthma meds, and I'm having a bad reaction to the new med.

Playing erotic hypnosis for your girlfriend or wife

Most of my erotic hypnosis MP3s are for women listeners. But I see a lot of husbands and boyfriends buying MP3s for their wives and girlfriends.

Yesterday one of my customers left a comment on Introducing Erotic Hypnosis' page. He said he played the MP3 for his wife, but didn't see any change. Here was my response:

I write all of my hypnosis scripts with the assumption that the listener wants to listen, wants to be hypnotized, and wants to accept the suggestions. If your wife is reluctantly listening or consciously rejecting the suggestions, there is nothing you can do. If she wants to accept the suggestions, but just doesn't believe she cannot be hypnotized, then tell her to think of the MP3 as 'entertainment'. As long as she enjoys listening to the MP3, she'll continue to listen. And the more she listens and relaxes into the fantasy, the more likely she will be to eventually accept the hypnotic suggestions.

Also, you said you played the track for your wife. Does that mean you watched her while she listened? Not a good idea. Some people can't relax or focus enough to go into a trance when another person is watching them. Your presence presence could be splitting her focus.
After I wrote that, I remembered that many hypnotic inductions involve splitting the subject's focus. Eye fascination inductions fatigue the mind by forcing the subject to focus on both visual stimuli and the hypnotist's words. But this situation is different. When you ask your wife or girlfriend to listen to an erotic hypnosis MP3, and then watch her for a response, you can make her very self-conscious, creating the kind of stress or anxiousness that prevents someone from entering a trance.

If you buy an erotic hypnosis MP3 for your spouse. Let her listen to it in private. Give her the space to get used to the idea (and the feelings) of listening to a stranger describing sexual activities and making sexual suggestions. Give her time to get comfortable, before you expect her to accept the post-hypnotic suggestions.

Friday, March 4, 2016

Updated the mailing list.

Took a day off from writing to test out a mailing list program. This will give subscribers more options when joining my mailing list.

Saturday, February 27, 2016

bartering live sessions for servces

I've been thinking about bartering or exchanging services. I'm looking for someone who is willing to blog about being hypnotized. I'm willing to conduct live voice sessions on skype for someone
who will blog about the experience. This, of course, is to promote my erotic hypnosis MP3s/CDs or my novels.

I'd prefer an experienced marketing professional, or someone with a sex toy review blog, but I'll willing to work with anyone who is good at blogging, promoting, or developing an audience. I might also be able to use other services, like search engine optimization, web site enhancements, or book promotion.

I would also love to have a literary agent.

Thursday, February 18, 2016

To encourage reviews I've installed Disqus

I've installed Disqus on hypnoticdreams.com. This places a discussion thread on every mp3 page, every story page, and every article page. I've also created a dedicated discussion page for general questions about Hypnotic Dreams and erotic hypnosis. This will make it easier for potential customers to ask questions. And make it possible for my listeners to post reviews.

To start, I am offering a free short story to any customer who posts a review. I have written a few stories (both maledom and femdom) that haven't been published.

Tammy, one of my long-time fans, has posted reviews of Building the Perfect Fetish and Obedient Desire.

Saturday, February 13, 2016

Lost Marbles


Okay, not erotic hypnosis, but still cool news. My short story, Lost Marbles is included in Misque Press' Hero & Heroine Magazine.